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Saturday, October 25, 2008
LEGALizing Halloween...for 4 year-olds
Wednesday, October 15, 2008
CAUTION: Talkin' 'bout E.D.
Monday, October 6, 2008
Mercy for Sex Offenders...
- Murderer
- Rapist
- Thief
- Sex Offender
- Adulterer
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Several years ago, I received an email from a long-time friend that contained a link to the state website indicating the current residences of all known sex-offenders...
I clicked on the link because of nothing more than morbid curiosity...I didn't stay long...
I navigated away quickly with a sickness bubbling from deep within me...
...but not due to what you might think?
My temporary sickness was not brought on by my disgust of those known convicted of sex crimes residing nearby. But instead, the utter absurdity of having such an on-line resource.
I am fully convinced of this: what divides us as people more than anything is an unwillingness for empathy and forgiveness. We declare war, scream across congressional aisles, sign divorce decrees, leave our children, discriminate against people of different skin tone...all in the name of self-righteousness and a need to be and feel superior.
I recently received a piece of campaign literature from a local politician campaigning for re-election. Amongst the common bullet-list of why this individual should be given a certain additional amount of time representing constituents, there was a list of recent pieces of legislation written or proposed by this politician.
The one that stood out the most was a piece of law proposed that would prevent convicted sex offenders from patronizing local swimming pools (as well as schools). I was very confused by this. I mean honestly where does this end? If we are to prevent this small minority of law-breakers from entering public areas where persons under the age of 18 MAY frequent...where is the end?
Theme parks?
Stadiums and Ballparks?
Sidewalks?
McDonald's? (maybe they should stay out of there for other reasons--you know it's not really food, right?)
Check out this scenario:
Mark (age 18); a senior in high school is dating a sophomore (15) named Christy. They have consensual sex. Christy's parents bring charges against Mark and he is convicted of statutory rape, and is now forever registered as a "sex offender". Twenty years go by...Mark is now married and has been for 12 years. Mark has three young children. But Mark can't go swimming with his wife and kids...
...huh...?
People should no doubt face the consequences of their actions and if the consequence of a certain crime (according to our justice system) is jail, probation, etc; then by all means, the offender must "pay" for the offense. But when does one reach forgiveness? When do we say, "you made a mistake, you faced the consequence, you've been forgiven (by the law) and it's time to move on"?
We all have demons, temptations, make choices that may seem unusual or even deviant. Haven't we all faced the idea that if someone found out I was doing such and such, I'd be in a lot of hot water? One might argue that we have to suppress such temptations.
I haven't found this to work, either. We all have a tendency to fall...ALL of us! What's best...?
Faith? A good shrink? A better wine? ...
For me it's the former...I choose to follow a Man who chose to find forgiveness & mercy in the worst of the worst. I follow this Man because he once walked in the shoes of the less-fortunate, the deviant, the scorned, the forgotten...the sex offenders.
Those who vote to separate people out who've made mistakes with the proverbial "Scarlett Letter"; forever to pay over and over for their crimes must have not been extended forgiveness in their own lives. For this, I do have pity. I know what it feels like to have someone close refuse forgiveness. I hope those of you out there will someday find peace...
But please let's not separate more than we already do...
Monday, September 22, 2008
Which BODY do you like best...?
Benchpress it's own body weight
Perform 10 vertical push-ups
Hold PLANK for 5 minutes
Perform Warrior III for 20 seconds for 60 seconds
Complete a Half Marathon in less than 2 hours
Dash 40 yards in less than 5 seconds
Hold Boat Pose on a bosu balance trainer for :60 seconds
Wednesday, September 10, 2008
Eat anything you want unless you...
- When you're actually on the road--pack your food...this will prevent you from the dreaded "fast-food" drive-by or consuming the unmentionables at airport eateries. As a general rule...we must prepare our menu ahead of time or we'll be doomed to make bad choices.
- Take your on-site "snack food" for when you get there...this is a good way to let your family know that you're trying to be disciplined and yet not excluding yourself from the "big production meals". ALSO BRING ENOUGH SNACKS TO SHARE! This allows for an inclusive presentation and it just may introduce Uncle Ed to red-pepper hummus for the first time...
- Lastly, share your fitness story with your family. Let them know what you're trying to accomplish and allow them to hear you heart. But make sure you do it in a way that's not defensive and/or condescending toward them. You don't want to come across as "you should do what I'm doing, too!" or "I'm not eating your food...it's not good for me!" or worse still: "I'm better than you!" BAD IDEA. This creates division and Lord knows we have enough drama at family functions as it is (can I get an amen!)
Remember, allow yourself to splurge...you're on vacation. After all, as we say here at DLT, it's not what you eat today...it's what you eat EVERYDAY. Holidays are an exception to the rule...your body will forgive and you'll be right back on your clean-eating come Monday morning.
Monday, September 8, 2008
Found You! (but is it worth it?)
Wednesday, September 3, 2008
High Fructose Corn Syrup...the real deal!
- The American Medical Association (AMA) recently concluded that "high fructose corn syrup does not appear to contribute to obesity more than other caloric sweeteners."
- Research confirms that high fructose corn syrup is safe and no different from other common sweeteners like table sugar and honey. All three sweeteners are nutritionally the same.
- High fructose corn syrup has the same number of calories as table sugar and is equal in sweetness. It contains no artificial or synthetic ingredients.
- The U.S. Food and Drug Administration granted high fructose corn syrup "Generally Recognized as Safe" status for use in food, and reaffirmed that ruling in 1996 after thorough review.
- High fructose corn syrup offers numerous benefits. It keeps food fresh, enhances fruit and spice flavors, retains moisture in bran cereals, helps keep breakfast and energy bars moist, maintains consistent flavors in beverages and keeps ingredients evenly dispersed in condiments.
-Source: http://www.sweetsurprise.com/hfcsquickfacts.php
STOP THE MADNESS...
It's nearly as maddening as Philip Morris campaigning against underage smoking...huh?
As you read the above "facts" from the new advertising campaign from the Corn Refiners Association, you might be confused too. This advertising campaign is designed to dissolve the myths that have helped demonized High Fructose Corn Syrup in recent years.
And after reading the first couple of facts, you might be thinking, "okay, sounds pretty good..."
And then you get to the last bullet point...
Whoops!
Go ahead read it again...take your time...
Let me clarify some things you may not be thinking about...
It shouldn't be any surprise that eating "clean" is best for you. That eating foods that leave a footprint (ie the stuff left on the fingertips after you've drawn out your hand from the cheetos bag) are not the best for you. Further that eating foods that have been chemically altered to help make them taste better, last longer, and remain moist have still been CHEMICALLY ALTERED. Somehow, something's got to give. How can something so fresh and clean as bran be untouched and remain clean after a chemical has been added?
It's the same reasoning behind the assumption if we injest a drug into our bodies that somehow we should not expect any side-effect consequences? It's a chemical altering a body that wasn't meant to be altered...
So please educate yourself...ask more questions. But don't fall into the trap that if something makes things "better" it's better for you...WRONG. After all, drug, alcohol, food, and sex addicts would claim that the "chemicals" they're putting in their bodies make them feel "better" too...
"Better" doesn't equate to GOOD..."Safe" doesn't equate to GOOD..."Approved" doesn't equate to GOOD...
Good is Good is Good!
Tuesday, August 19, 2008
DLT Tip of the Week--My seatbelt?
DO:
When reaching for the shoulder harness of your seat belt, turn your shoulders and upper torso in direction of the seat belt buckle and reach for the buckle with the opposite hand, pull the buckle back across your body and then you can use your other hand to snap into connection.
DON'T:
Reach back with your left arm (if your driving, right arm if you're the passenger). This excess torque placed on the entire shoulder girdle can prove to be too strenuous.
(Those who've had shoulder dislocations will appreciate this simple adjustment)
GIVE IT A TRY...IT MAY NEED SOME GETTING USED TO...BUT WELL WORTH THE LONG-TERM BENEFITS!
Have a great week!
David Lea
Monday, August 18, 2008
Public School...best thing since sliced bread!
Wednesday, August 13, 2008
Dirty Biz...
- Dance Instructors who can't dance
- Swim coaches who can't swim
- Group Fitness Teachers who can't complete the exercises
- Personal Trainers who don't look like they practice what they preach...
Make sense?
I didn't think so...
What does this say about integrity? How come we follow, patron, invest in those who don't do what they're sellin?
- Would you hire a financial consultant who just filed Chapter 11?
- Would you receive marriage counseling from someone who just left his wife and kids?
- Would you go to a barber who's own dome looked like Edward Scissorhands had a couple of spare minutes?
- Would you attend a church who's leadership covered up a sex scandal?
....I hope not...
Expect more...demand integrity. Don't just do something because the biz has been recommended by your brother-in-law. Ask questions, investigate, get to know the people you do biz with...
Your dollar, your investment, your life is worth more!
Tuesday, August 12, 2008
Man's Best Friend...really?!
Exercise Sucks!
Why aren't gyms stacked, packed, and racked to the back during ALL 12 months of the year?
Why isn't home-gym equipment part of everyone's home decor? Why is it so unusual that when one sees a "six pack" of rectus abdominis, we swoon, awe, and gawk
Because exercise sucks, that's why!!!
I realize coming from someone who makes his profession in the fitness industry, my aforementioned comments might seem counter-productive, self-destructive, or just plain odd...
But let's all be honest, if exercise were easy, simple, or (seemingly) gave us the same enjoyment as a double martini at Mosaic, a kraut-laden polish sausage at the "K", or having sex with our significant other, WE'D ALL DO IT!!!
Am I right, or am I right?
Furthermore...let's analyze exercise in a group setting (i.e. the gym):
What we're asking of people is to dress up in clothes that don't fit, are too tight, show too much, or don't cinch where we need to be cinched...then ask them to jump, lift, push, pull, step, run in ways that seem odd, or don't fit their idea of functional everyday movement...then we put them in front of OTHER PEOPLE who look and do exercise better than them???!!!
(sarcasm ahead)
Man, I don't see the problem??!! What's the big deal? Expose people to potential wardrobe malfunctions, while jumping and jiggling, in front of pretty people, in an ego-laden sub-culture...
(more sarcasm ahead)
I just don't see the issue, do you?!
(sarcasm ends here)
Well, of course exercise is hard, humbling, difficult, and an up and down journey. The great experiences in life are NEVER EASY. It's hard, takes great discipline. It takes commitment, dedication, support from others, and expertise from those in the fitness industry.
But as one of my wonderful training clients, Cherryh Butler (one of INK magazine's supremely talented staff writers) says, "There are days I don't want to train, but I have to...I need to...I have to be there!"
So, does exercise really suck? For ALL OF US, there are those moments (I myself, had one today!). But find an exercise environment, a support system, a personal trainer, a group exercise class: all the components that are going to make you successful in your fitness journey...
...then...
MAKE IT HAPPEN! YOU are worth it!
The WATERboy
Here’s a basic rule of thumb to use when deciding what & what not to put in your mouth when living a healthy lifestyle:
If what you’re about to still in that gullet of yours, leaves any kind of trace, residue, "footprint" behind, you may want to question its validity in the "good-for-you" food & drink category...
So things like cheetos, doritos, french fries, rice krispie treats, soda all have one thing in common: they leave something behind!!! (c’mon, show us those orange caked-on digits as they exit that 20 oz. bag of death!)
Which brings me back to...WATER.
That’s right...ding, ding, you’re correct...NO RESIDUE. Perfection, purity, clean, WATER!
MIX WITH IT, COOK WITH IT, CLEAN WITH IT, BATHE IN IT...but most of all, when you’re feeling parched and even when you’re not:
DRINK IT--drink WATER more often than anything else (yes, including you’re favorite Venti tomorrow morning!)
any questions?
FRANKS & BEANS!
2. Wear flip-flops. I don't want to be sharing your feet filth and fowl. It's enough that you're sharing the visual of your "franks and beans" (see 1)
3. Reserve your phone conversations for OUTSIDE the lockerroom. I don't need to know how popular you THINK you are!
4. If you have to apply comforting powder to your unmentionables, please turn TOWARD your locker and NOT toward me!
5. WASH YOUR HANDS after you finish filling the porcelain. I do know where your hands are going--straight to the 50 pound dumbbell I'll be using in about 17 minutes.
thanks for trying to make the lockerrooms a better place to temporarily inhabit!
Jane Eyre, Lifetime Network...and...exercise?!
YOU ARE NOT EXERCISING IF YOU ARE SIMULTANEOUSLY DOING THE FOLLOWING:
- Reading a book/ magazine
- Studying for an exam with flash cards placed on the elliptical machine’s "book lip"
- Talking with your work-out partner/ cardio-neighbor more than you’re working
- TALKING ON THE PHONE
- Fully engaged in the plot-line of the Lifetime Network Drama playing on the flatscreen in front of you
If you are truly getting the most out of your workouts, you are NOT engaged in anything other than your workouts. PLEASE put the book, remote control, cell phone, or study notes away...especially if you’re complaining, "I just don’t see any progress from my workouts?!"
The one allowable exception of distraction: iTunes!!!...nuff said...
ZZZZZZ's--Do you get them?
WRONG!!!
We have to SLEEP!
"Sleep???!!!"
That's right...sleep. Our bodies will not function appropriately if we're not getting an adequate amount of sleep. It's just that simple.
We must set goals to begin to reach 7-8 hours of sleep on a consistent basis. Your body demands it. It really does. When you begin a new exercise routine, you will soon discover that your sleep habits improve. This is not an accident! You will feel tired (a natural tired)--not exhaustion due to high-stress levels and poor diet (which is what most people feel when they say they're "tired!")
Begin today...we need to begin making sleep a priority. It's so critical to rounding out your complete new LIFE-CHANGE!
For me, each morning, I do a quick count (after looking at my alarm clock digits) of just how many hours I received the night before...good habit to get into and hold yourself (and ask your trainer to do the same!)
HOW SHOULD I SLEEP?
The Way to Sleep: Sleep on your side with a pillow between your knees. This allows for the appropriate digestion to occur while you're sleeping along with the spine to find correct alignment while sleeping.
Avoid: Sleeping on your stomach. When we sleep in prone position, the back is forced to lie in an unnatural state for too long. Is the prone position good for stretching and working in the gym...yes. But avoid sleeping this way all night long!
OKAY...YOU'RE DONE READING THIS...GO TO SLEEP!!!
-D.W.B.L.